Why Baby Massage Makes Sense
Think about it. Your newborn has been used to being in your womb for nine months and being outside of it will seem strange. Being touched will remind them of being rocked and cradled inside you. Don’t forget, a baby’s sense of touch is already well developed at birth and so they should naturally respond well to massage.
But there’s more to it than just familiarity. Health issues affecting your newborn, like colic, can be improved with massage. It also aids the circulatory and lymphatic systems, it’s beneficial to your baby’s breathing and some of the movements can help the digestive systems.
How to Get Started with Baby Massage
It’s never too early to start. Find a class or qualified expert near you via International Association of Infant Massage or get stuck in right now with specialist paediatric physiotherapist Kath Frame’s tips..
Aim for a short massage every day
Every day or a couple of times a week is fine if that’s all you can manage. Think about this as being an activity that’s ‘with’ your baby, not ‘for’ your baby. Get your partner involved too.
Be sure it’s a good time
If your baby is too hungry, too full, too tired or too fractious, reschedule. Choose a time that suits you both, like just before bath time, when your baby will be relaxed but alert enough to appreciate it.
Create the right atmosphere
Your room needs to be warm (at least 24°C) and quiet. Dim the lights, play gentle music. Some babies don’t like too much skin to skin at first, try it over a vest or baby grow.
Get them in the right position
Lay them somewhere safe such as the floor, or in the middle of the bed, with a folded towel beneath. Don’t forget to turn your baby onto their tummy too, which helps them get used to different positions, is good for colic and helps with development. There’s also nothing more gorgeous than seeing their little bottoms and perfect backs!
Always remember to do a patch test
Remember: when using any cream or lotion on your baby’s skin, always do a small patch test the day before. This will ensure you don’t run into any baby skin care issues.
Baby Massage Techniques to Try
Knees up and down
The move: holding your baby’s knees, gently push them towards the tummy, then straighten the legs out again.
Good for: helps improve the circulation and sends oxygen rushing around your baby’s body, relaxing muscles and helping remove waste products from the lymphatic system.
The move: start with one hand at the lower end of your baby’s ribs on the right, then gently slide it up to the shoulder on the other side. Squeeze the shoulder. Repeat on the other side, do each side four times.
Good for: if your baby has a cold or is congested, this can get rid of mucus from the lungs.
The move: Stroke downwards over the tummy area just from the bottom of the ribs to the thighs. Do the right side, then the left and repeat six times.
Good for: this will help soothe colic by relaxing the intestines.
Sun and Moon
The move: Working clockwise, make a full circle on your little one’s stomach with your left hand. The right hand then makes a semicircle from the left to the right-hand side. Repeat this six times.
Good for: this can help with wind, as the clockwise motion moves it through the intestines.
Magic Touch Baby Massage Tips
Be aware of how your baby is feeling and stop if they are unsettled or crying.
If sick, or after immunisations, your baby might not enjoy a massage. Stop until they feel better.
Keep your baby warm; wrap them up in a warm towel and just uncover the portions of the body you need to.
Always move your hands in a clockwise direction.
Be gentle; don’t press too hard or move your baby’s limbs in unnatural directions.
Baby not keen? It may take a few tries for them to get used to massage, so pick it up again two days later.
What to Use for Baby Massage
The NCT recommends you don’t use any oils until your baby is at least a month old. Then, try a cold-pressed oil, a mineral oil or a petroleum-based ointment but NOT cooking oil, olive oil, mustard or peanut oil. Sunflower, almond or grapeseed oils are good bases and ingredients such as chamomile and lavender may help your baby sleep. Although you could use a simple oil to massage your baby, there are some lovely products out there specifically for babies, i.e., Weleda Baby Calendula Oil.